Sunday, September 23, 2012

Caleb's Birthday

I made him a Green Bay Packers cake

The party favors were Packers cake pops, not made by me

Eating pizza with friends at our house

First gathering at the new house

Lots of boys!

The grandparents

One of the slides at Crazy Bounce

Caleb and Ethan pounding each other

Nate knocking Isaac off his feet

Caedmon, Eli, Lucas, Wesley, Julia, Maddy, Xavier, Corban, Caleb, Isaac, Ethan, Micah

One of Isaac's best friends, "Wucas"

So proud of our 8 year old
Caleb celebrated his 8th birthday!  On his actual birthday Nate brought donuts home for breakfast.  Caleb asked for rice krispie treats to share at school and we opened presents after school.  We gave Caleb his first watch and some Ninjago legos.  We did little store bought cupcakes because the real cake was for the party.  Caleb had his first birthday party and we held it at Crazy Bounce.  Crazy Bounce has a bunch of inflatables to play/bounce on.  We invited Caleb's friends from South Haven- the Morrisons, Grosses, Smalls and Slots.  My parents came out and Grandma DeMaster is visiting, very fun!  We invited everyone to our house for pizza as many of our friends hadn't seen our new house yet.  We then headed to Crazy Bounce.  The kids (and adults) had a blast.  The kids were drenched in sweat by the end of the evening.  I made a Packers cake and we gave out Packers cake pops for the party favor.  Caleb said it was an awesome birthday party! 

Caleb's 8th year will be a year of transition.  A new house and school and then a new baby in the family!  Caleb is meeting the challenges head on and we are proud of him.  We love watching him grow physically, athletically, intellectually and spiritually.  He does great in school and is a loving big brother.  He is now 4'7" tall, which puts him in the 98th percentile.  He gets tired of always being the tallest kid, but we remind him it probably won't be forever.  We thank God for another year with Caleb!

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Camping

Julia's class at the apple orchard

Caleb and Cardale bouncing

Cardale, Isaac and Julia wading

The kids playing on the beach
This past weekend we went camping with Cardale's family at Tri-Ponds in Allegan.  We couldn't have asked for a better camping weekend.  The weather was great, sunny during the day and cool at night.  Another bonus of fall camping is that the sun sets at a decent time so the kids aren't awake til 10:30 pm.  The kids had fun playing together and the adults got to relax a little bit.  We were talking about how it has been 3 years since Cardale lived with us, time flies!

Julia went on her first field trip last week to an apple orchard.  There was a reporter from the Holland Sentinel there and her picture ended up in the paper, very cute!  This orchard had only 2% of its crop because of the frost this spring.  It's sad not having many apples to pick this year.  Our neighbor's little girl is in Julia's class and I was going to bring her to the field trip.  Well, Asha got sick that morning and couldn't go.  Julia was devastated, I was shocked at the intensity of her disappointment.  She was wailing and refusing to get in the car because she didn't want to go without Asha.  I could also hear Asha crying at her house.  Two sad little girls.  But, once Julia was on the field trip she had a great time.

Isaac gave us a scare recently.  The boys were playing outside with friends and I was inside.  Caleb runs in and says, "Isaac got hit by a car!"  I just looked at him and said, "what?"  Caleb said, "He doesn't have any broken bones or anything."  I had all the windows open and couldn't hear screaming so in my gut I knew it wasn't SERIOUS, but I was still scared.  Isaac had been riding his bike on the sidewalk and decided to turn around in a neighbor's driveway.  At that moment the neighbor was backing her minivan up and bumped Isaac.  She hadn't seen him and he hadn't been paying attention.  He fell off his bike, but wasn't hurt.  He was scared though.  The neighbor was very kind, giving him a hug and saying we both need to be more careful.  I was really hit with emotions the next day thinking about how the outcome could have been so different.  I've said many "thank you Jesus and thank you for guardian angels!"  Caleb also gave me a scare recently.  We were walking home from school and he darted in front of a truck without looking.  It's like his brain just shut off for a minute, even he was surprised at what he'd done.  These incidents have reminded me I don't really have control over my kids.  When they are little you can control almost everything they do.  As they get older all I can do is train them and recognize they will make their own choices.  I know, not exactly a new idea!

We're looking forward to Grandma DeMaster's visit this week!

Thursday, September 6, 2012

A New School Year

2nd Grade

3's Preschool

Young 5's

All the kids going to school!
It finally happened!  One of our main reasons for moving to Holland was for the Christian school and now we could start what we've been talking about for months. All 3 kids are in school and they are all in the same building, for one year at least! Caleb had been anxious all summer about starting at a new school.  Once he met the teacher and saw the classroom his fears lessened.  He started school a week before Isaac and Julia so I thought that might make him anxious, but it didn't.  The first day of school for Caleb went well overall.  As a parent it was hard to hear him describe swinging by himself at recess and not having anyone to play with.  I just wanted to go in and fix it for him!  However, by the third day he found a boy to play with.  Now that he has 2 1/2 weeks under his belt, things seem to be settling in.  He has some boys he plays with at recess and he likes his teacher. He has 25 kids in his class which is the largest class he's ever been in. He also thinks it is cool that they have ipads in the classroom.  We can tell he still has some stress because of all the changes, he's been acting out more and getting frustrated easily.  But, we know this is a big change so we're not too surprised.  Caleb also started soccer which is a good outlet for him.  The team he is on is not as good as the team he had last year, but he is having fun and that is all that matters. One of the girls in Caleb's class lives a couple houses down from us.  Today they were riding bikes and playing together.  I overheard her say to Caleb something about Julia being a stepsister.  Caleb corrected her and said she was adopted from Korea. Good to know he can set people straight!

Isaac started Young 5's.  He attends 4 mornings a week.  He is kind of a homebody so I think he enjoys being home every afternoon.  However, I also think he would have been fine all day at school.   He is bored in the afternoon with Caleb gone and Julia taking a nap.  He has a new friend in the neighborhood, a 4 year old boy, Patrick.  Unfortunately Patrick attends school in the afternoon instead of the morning.  It was hard to get a read if Isaac was nervous about school.  Isaac generally has a "go with the flow" personality.  I think it was  helpful for him to watch Caleb go to school a couple of days before he started.  Isaac likes his teacher, but he is very quiet at school.  He has 10 kids in his class and he is slowly telling me about which boys he plays with.  Most of the time he says, "I played with this boy, but I don't know his name."  Isaac is getting very comfortable with our neighbors.  It's fun to watch him riding scooters and bikes with Patrick.  Isaac also feels comfortable sitting on his bike on our older neighbor's driveway and watching him wash his car, putter around, etc.  As a parent it makes me nervous when my kids just sit and talk with an adult neighbor.  I keep thinking, "I don't really know these people, even if they have kids, what are they saying to my kid right now?"  It's a hard line between being overly paranoid and a good parent who is keeping their kids safe.  We've had a lot of talks with the kids about not going in other people's houses or backyards, asking before they play with a friend, etc.  I LOVE that my kids have friends to play with in our neighborhood, but figuring out how to do that safely has been interesting. Isaac is also playing soccer for the first time.  He's not actually on a team or play games.  He has soccer once a week for 1 hour and a parent goes with him.  There are a couple coaches and they split the kids into groups to do drills.  Isaac has pretty good skills for a 5 year old. 

Julia is in 3 year old preschool.  She attends two mornings a week for two hours.  I also think she would have been fine with 3 or 4 mornings a week.  She loves going to school.  She has been asking to attend school ever since Isaac was in preschool last year.  She has 16 kids in her class, 12 girls and 4 boys.  I helped in the classroom one morning and discovered the girls are quite domineering.  As the mother of a child with a strong personality it made me feel good to see other children with strong personalities in the class!  After helping in the class I once again thanked God I am not a preschool teacher.  I can handle one 3 year old, not 16 of them.  Trying to get these kids to form a line was nearly impossible.  Our neighbors have a daughter, Asha, who is in Julia's class.  The girls also play together in the backyard.  It is awesome to see Julia playing with other kids instead of following me around all the time. 

This morning I said a little thank you prayer.  Nate was working today and I drove the kids to school.  However, after dropping them off my van wouldn't start.  After talking with Nate we determined the battery was dead.  Thankfully school is close enough that I could walk home.  Our neighbor was home and kind enough to drive me back to school and jump the van.  I couldn't use the van the rest of the day, but that was ok.  The weather was nice and I could walk to school to pick up the kids.  Nate put in a new battery when he got home.  I am thankful for a school that is so close and helpful neighbors!